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8:30 a.m., Aug. 24) Orléans
man on a mission to change peoples attitudes By
Fred Sherwin Orléans Online
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| Kevin
Frost is out to prove to people that deaf and blindness is a challenge that can
be met and conquered with the right attitude. Fred Sherwin/Photo
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Its
not easy being good at what you do. Take a deaf and blind person as soon as they
get used to the various challenges thrown at them and are able to live as close
to a normal life as possible, people start doubting youre actually handicapped. Ive
had people come up to me when Im with Nemo, my deaf and blind guide dog,
and ask me what its like training guide dogs, recalls Frost, 38, who
is on a mission to change peoples attitude that deaf and blind people have
to constantly be bumping into walls and knocking over furniture. Frost
started losing his hearing in grade school. At first, he couldnt hear anything
under 65 decibels. Over time it slowly deteriorated to the point where he cant
hear anything over 95 decibels. Frost
managed to graduate from Gloucester High School after getting a hearing aid and
by learning to lip read. After
graduation he met his wife Karen and got married and even started refereeing,
a job in which not being able to hear the players or their parents complain can
be a plus. He eventually had two children Madison, 9, Montana, 7, and Mitchel,
4, and worked at a local food distributor as a loading dock driver. You
could say Frosts life was as normal as yours or mine, but all that was about
to change. In
2002, he noticed that he was bumping into things and he and started knocking objects
over that normally would have been in his field of vision. When
he went to get his eyesight he was told he had Ushers Syndrome, a rare degenerative
disease that slowly debilitates a persons eyesight and hearing. When Frost
was first diagnosed his field of vision was 12 per cent. Today, its only
eight per cent. Each
year it gets worse, says Frost who had to give up refereeing and his job
at the food distributor which he held for 17 years. It
was shocking news and then to have everything taken away. I went through a depression,
you know, Why me? and then a period of denial and anger. But then
slowly I got out of it with the help of my family and my psychologist and I decided
that I was going to do something with my life, says Frost. The
first thing he did was learn braille with the aid of his wife who helps integrate
children with physical and mental disabilities into the school system. Less than
a year later he got Nemo, his guide dog. Something
else happened that would totally change his life. His wife worked with a man named
Ron Guerard who suggested that he take up speed skating. Frost, who considers
himself a workaholic, jumped at the opportunity. The
worse thing you can do if you have a handicap is sit around. When you sit around
you grow older faster. The secret to freedom is being active, says Frost,
who practices what he preaches. Besides speed skating he also golfs and does dragon
boating with a team of other legally blind competitors, although hes the
only one whos also legally blind.
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| Kevin
Frost tees off during a recent golf tournament as his beloved guide dog Nemo looks
on. Fred Sherwin/Photo
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But speed
skating is Frosts true passion. After training for 100 hours with members
of the Gloucester Concordes Speedskating Club he started entering competitive
races. He watches the other skaters to figure out when the race is about to start
and he can make out the orange cones that mark the inside of the speedskating
oval. In his
rookie season last year, he won two silver and two bronze medals. The
initial success has only served to fuel Frosts fire even more. He now has
a complete team behind him that includes a sports psychologist, a fitness trainer,
a chiropractor and a core strength trainer. His
goal is to one day compete in the Paralympics, the only problem is that speed
skating is not a Paralympic sport yet. Frost has enlisted the help of
a public relations advisor to try and spread his story around the world so that
the International Paralympic Association will eventually take notice. Thus
far, hes found two blind speed skaters in Australia and hes heard
theres a couple in Russia. Then theres Japan and South Korea. With
over 70,000 active speed skaters in South Korea, Frost is certain some of them
are either deaf or blind. Besides
the thrill of competing and the meaning that it brings to his life, speed skating
also allows Frost a platform to show the world and especially other legally deaf
and blind people, that the secret to freedom is being active and staying positive. I
dont care of if someone puts a mountain in front of me. Ill go over
it, around it, under it or through it if I have to, says Frost without a
hint of exaggeration. In
his spare time Frost works with businesses and government agencies including the
Ottawa Police Service on how to deal with people with disabilities, especially
those with guide dogs. He
also makes a habit of visiting schools and talking to students about what its
like being deaf and blind. He brings a pair of ear muffs with him to demonstrate
his level of hearing and a pair of glasses that have been blacked out, except
for a pin hole in the middle of each lens to demonstrate what he can see. My
philosophy is to live life to the fullest no matter what life throws at you. I
want to educate people. I want to motivate people especially anyone who
has recently found out their going blind or theyre losing their hearing.
Deaf and blindness is not a death sentence, its merely a challenge that
can be overcome if you stay active, says Frost. To
learn more about Frosts story, you can visit his website at www.ushersyndromeskater.com. (This
story was made possible thanks to the generous support of our local
business partners.) Return
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