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A
tale of two
incredible women
Last
Friday, I had the honour of attending the memorial service
for Helen Burns.
While very few people outside of Navan and Cumberland
knew much about her, she was a pillar of her community
for the past 50 years.
Helen
was a lifelong member of the Navan Women's Institute,
a devoted member of the Cumberland-Navan United Church,
and a volunteer/organizer/ mother hen of the Navan Fair.
In fact, there hasn't been much that has occurred in Navan
during the past 50 years that Helen wasn't involved in.
I
first met Helen in 2005. It was the first I entered the
Navan Fair baking competition. I had done quite well,
winning several red ribbons, but was nowhere near the
level you needed to win the Baking Queen crown.
Anyway,
Helen was manning the table in the Navan Fair building
when I approached her with my idea to have a Baking King,
as well as a Baking Queen, so more men would want to enter.
She
probably thought I was off my rocker, but she humoured
me just the same and we had a great conversation about
how men can bake just as well as women, and perhaps Fair
should name a Baking King.
Helen
was speaking from experience, of course. Her husband Bob
has won more bread machine ribbons over the years than
the rest of the competition combined.
The
next time I met Helen was at their home on Trim Road.
I'll never forget walking in the door and seeing their
cat lying on what appeared to be a large pillow in the
corner. It wasn't until I walked up to the animal that
I realized it wasn't a pillow, it was the rest of the
cat which weighed close to 30 lbs.
In
the years that passed since out first meeting, Helen always
greeted me with a big hug. She made me feel like I was
part of the Navan community even though I lived in Orleans.
She
was tickled pink when I wrote a story about Bob's second
cousin, Oliver Thomas Burns, who left the family farm
in Navan in 1890 to fight alongside the British forces
in the Boer War. The 23-year-old was killed during the
Battle of Paardeberg shortly after he arrived in South
Africa and his name is carved into a memorial on the site,
along with 20 other Canadian soldiers who died that day.
His name is also listed on the Navan cenotaph.
Helen's
roots in Cumberland run as far and as deep as nearly anyone's.
She was born an Edwards and she was related to the Fergusons
and the Kennedys through various marriages and in-laws.
The
pride she had in her community manifested itself through
thousands of hours of volunteer work. She was an institution
and she will be sorely missed especially by her children
and grandchildren, and her husband Bob.
Her's
was a life well-lived.
Speaking
of a life well-lived, I recently wrote a story about another
incredible woman. Kimberley Fawcett was nearly killed
in an accident that claimed the life of her nine-month-old
son Kieran in 2006.
She
not only lost her infant son, but se also lost her right
leg which they had to amputated just above the knee.
It's
hard to imagine the emotional and physical trauma, Capt.
Fawcett went through in the weeks and months that followed
the accident. A lesser person would have drowned in self-pity,
or allowed themselves to be overcome with hatred for the
man who caused the accident.
But
Cpt. Fawcett did neither. She didn't allow the memory
of her son to be tainted by negative feelings or thoughts.
Instead, she used her son's death as the singular motivating
factor in her recovery.
Within
six months of the accident she was walking with a prosthetic
leg. She eventually started running and within a year
she was training for the World Paratriathlon in Vancouver
which she competed in in June 2007.
She
went on to become a double bronze medalist in 2009 and
2010, Last spring, she switched gears and started training
for the 100-metre dash which she hopes to compete in at
the Summer Paralympics in August.
Later
this week, she will be taking a break from her training
to climb Mount Kilimanjaro to raise money and awareness
for Parathletes Canada, a non-profit organization she
founded to help provide equipment and training for physically-disabled
athletes who want to take part in competitive sports.
If
you look up the word "inspiration" in the dictionary,
you will see a picture of Cpt. Fawcett.
And
somewhere in Heaven, a little boy is beaming with pride.
(If
you wish to comment on this or any other View Point column
please write to Fred Sherwin at fsherwin@magma.ca)
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